My future`baby`

In my culture, when a couple got married, everybody expects that after 9 and a half month they will have a baby. This is a kind of rule of being married. Now, we are married for 2 years and still don`t have a baby. Because of our parents` modern understanding, nobody force us to have a baby. I always think that I want to have a child when I am or we are ready to have. In my opinion, before the baby we need to have a house and we need to settle down at least for a while. The most important thing is we need to have good salaries to raise a child properly. However, I think I have started planning to have a baby in 2-3 years because we are growing old every year and in the future it is going to be really hard playing with our own child. This topic really confuses me. On the other hand, who is going to take care my baby while I am at work? The more I think about it the more I get nervous about it. That is why I told my parents and in-laws not to talk about us having baby for 2 years. I just try not to worry about it until I really want to plan having a baby. I think I will be more certain about this plan in near future. Overall I love kids and I want to have at least one eventually.